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♥ 21 April 2009 @ 7:55 PM
` keke =) Today I was so happy! I enjoyed my day =) heex Wake up early in the morning, prepared baby clothes and the necessary stuffs for him after his shower. After ready all the things, ate my b'fast wif hubby den went off to hospital for baby doctor's appointment.. haha when we reached there, as usual, we need to register, wait for the nurse to call us den i'll carry the little prince to check his weight. He is 8.1kg now. Before we went in to see Doctor Alex, a baby gal was crying den the funny part was.. My little boy saw a baby gal cried den his face expression started become so sad and after a while he start to cried too.. hahaha~ After went in to see doctor, doctor didn't say much, he asked how's baby? Hv we started to gv him porridge? Bla bla bla.. Den I'll carry him to the bed for injection. Ha he cry louder, though he didn't know how to talk, he keep staring the doctor and start to scream and shout.. haha we know tt he actually scolding the doctor.. muahaha so funny!! After the doctor appointment, we brought the little one to Sutera Mall and Tesco Kulai for shopping!! He was so happy and even didn't want to sit at the baby stroller; therefore, we hv to tk turns to carry him!! After a walk, we felt so hungry den we went for some makan - KFC. Baby had his wipped potato, I had my breast crispy chix and hubby had his thigh and drumbstick.. heex, it was so delicious!! I hv quite a period of time didn't hv Malaysia KFC, definitely.. The taste is different from sg.. Honestly, I still prefer Malaysia KFC. After a walk and we aslo brought some baby stuffs like pampers, milk powder and etc.. all was his stuffs.. ha We went home happily then =) Anyway, looking forward to the next outing wif the little one again.. keke  ♥ 20 April 2009 @ 1:37 PM
` Dear All, I believe some of you may have came across this article before. Along our journey, the weariness and monotony of life takes its toll on us, such that we tend to overlook seemingly mundane matters, taking advantage of our current situation and circumstances. In anything we do, have the conviction to be right here right now, lest our thoughts wander to the fearful future and the painful past... MARRIAGE When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before th e divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and w rote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. Her heart had finally broke down...The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah...blah..blah. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage! ♥ @ 1:01 PM
` :) I am on my holiday!! Woo Woo.. Though is only a few days.. but I m sure I'll enjoy my motherhood life wif the little one. Tml hubby and me gonna bring him for the 6 months injection. This is the last jap till the next jap will be on his 1 year old time. Den we decided to bring him to shopping after the jap (this is what we usually did). Everytime when we bring him out, he definitely will be very happy =) ♥ 16 April 2009 @ 9:46 PM
` Today I supposed to work 12pm-8pm but ytd vivian asked me if i want to go steamboat wif her and Lei.. I said emm.. let me consider 1st.. and at the end, I decided to change shift wif Jia Hui so I'll be able to join them for dinner.. Four of us - vivian, Lei, hubby and me.. we went to CHUA YI PIN STEAMBOAT RESTAURANT for dinner.. was delicious + enjoyed.. *thumbs up*.. went home after the dinner.. While on the way home, maybe I was so tired and know what.. I fall aslp.. ah haha~ Sun I'll be working morning shift, after work.. Me and hubby are going back to JB-Kulai for a short holiday.. as next tues baby will be having doctor appoinment and this time round, he goona hv his 6 months injection.. For what we hv plan.. Sun nite, we are going to Pasar Malam.. Mon I guess I'll be staying at home to accompany the little prince as hubby need to fix his motor.. Tues, we will be bringing the little prince for his injection and then we are planning to bring him for a walk.. Wed, we are going for facial @ Dermalogical @ 1630hrs.. haha looking forward to it!! Gonna hv a rest, will update soon =) t@t@.. ♥ 04 April 2009 @ 10:48 PM
` Today I was working 12pm-8pm as a ED and also including the usual job.. c/in, c/out and etc.. emm was smooth and everything goes well.. reached home @ abt 8.55pm.. packed my bag and tidy some of the places and things.. feels hungry as I haven't taken my dinner yet.. decided to cook noodles + egg for myself.. Ha I was enjoyed eating my noodles and reading newspaper at the same time. But another thing was...... when I got home, saw hubby watching TV.. at first I happily talking to him and when I open my cupboard.. saw some t-shirt was fold nicely but discover that it wasn't iron.. before I cook my noodles, he said he has eaten the two eggs that has left in the fridge as he also cook noodles for himself in the afternoon.. and.. luckily I bought some eggs before I got home.. saw the bed was so messy and untidy.. OMG~ and suddenly thought of our little prince.. asked hubby if he has called back to ask how's baby.. he said everything was fine.. I asked him if is he just called back.. he said hee hee.. I was like.. =( arghhh~ when u saw me den u think of baby, rite.. the whole afternoon, what hv u done!! maybe u shld take a little bit of initiative in those little things.. ♥ 03 April 2009 @ 11:24 PM
` Just finish working midnite for the past two days.. thinking.. emm have been almost one year didn't work midnite shift as tt time I was pregnant.. My first time on midnite shift since I came back from work.. feels so tiring :( tml I'll be working 12pm-8pm.. ha still hv some time to rest more.. but tml I am planning to go M.O.M to collect my S pass and after that straight to work.. So lucky and happy that I hv got my S Pass.. and later.. I'll be applying PR wif hubby.. hope it will success too.. *making a wish* this morning reached home a bit late as I went to ICA @ Lavender to enquire abt my PR application.. after reached home, took a shower and I had a gd slp.. till 3 plus hubby wake me up den we were discussing what to cook for our dinner.. Last decision - I'll be doing the washing, vacuum and moping.. he will be doing the preparation for our dinner.. haha today I got a sms from Joselyn.. SURPRISINGLY!! I got my off day on Mon which I thought I won't get it as I hv check wif Clement that there are 3 persons applying the off day on Mon.. I was so sad cz hubby off on Mon den next day afternoon.. If I can get the off day on Mon also den we can go back to JB to visit baby and come back to work on next day.. wahahah ~ and I have got it now!! Thanks Clement!! =) Can't wait to see my baby on Mon =) I am extremely happy!! |
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